By by Esther Njer
Too many people are just wasting time viewing other people’s lives on social media and only the word “wish” occupies them instead of getting up and making their lives better. No one has to know your move before making it . Stop looking for Validation . Stop waiting on people to clap for you before you even take the first step. Everybody don’t need access to your dreams .
Many people waste valuable time waiting for approval before they take action on their dreams. They hesitate holding back their potential because they are worried about what other people might think. They want reassurance . They want someone to tell them that they are on the right path but the truth is if you keep waiting for Validation you’ll never move on,you’ll stay stuck looking around for a sign instead of creating your own.
Validation is a trap ,it tricks you into thinking that your success depends on how others perceive you . It makes you believe that if people don’t approve your goals then maybe they aren’t worthy pursuing .But remember your dreams don’t need permission. You don’t need applause before you even get started . Move forward because you believe in yourself even when no one else does. Not everyone will understand your journey . Not everyone will see the potential you have.
Success doesn’t come from asking permission ,it comes from taking action even when nobody believes in you. It comes from trusting yourself that you are enough to move forward even when you feel uncertain. Moving forward in silence has a lot of power.
When you focus on your own path you stop wasting energy on things that doesn’t matter. You stop feeling the need to compete with people . You stop feeling chasing things just because other people have and you start chasing what actually matters to you.
Success comes from persistence , commitment even when it feels like other people are ahead. Even when it feels like you nothing is happening . Even when you start questioning if you made the right choice . The truth is success takes time. Growth takes time only if you keep planting seeds and keep watering them eventually they will grow. The problem is most people will quit. The only way to success is to be persistent. You have to remind yourself that even when you are not seeing success yet doesn’t mean you’re not making progress. The only thing that matters is that you are moving forward .
